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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #40 on: January 23, 2009, 12:35 am »

Lyeman, just ignore anyone and everyone who has the slightest chance of really pissing you off. And guys, yall are not helping the situation whatsoever. Be nice or get a life


I say pick a day. Maybe your parents will let you skip school. Go over everything that has happened, and attempt to identify a common theme. If you want to, you can test your findings by asking your parents to randomly initiate that instigating theme at a random time over the next week. Once you find the problem, look for ways to counter or avoid it. I can help you at any point. Just PM me or post here.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #41 on: January 23, 2009, 12:37 am »

You shouldn't have posted mixed partial information of a private converstaion between you and s-t-n.  To be equally fair, s-t-n posting the entire private conversation was a bit of a low blow too.
...I dont just get all pissy at people when things arent going well. And I dont point fingers at people for my problems either
True, but you have no problem continually sharing your depressive feelings with everyone.  Think outside the box for a moment and think that there’s a chance we are getting tired of it.  I think mostly everyone has at least tried once to encourage you, so continuously making new topics about your latest depression is getting old.  If you are not going to listen to us, go somewhere else.  Enough with the arguing, enough with the depressive topics, enough already.  PM a friend on the forums, go listen to some music to release your feelings, to go a church and ask a youth pastor for advice, find a real person local in your area with similar interest and develop SOCIAL SKILLS all for the sake to help yourself.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #42 on: January 23, 2009, 12:40 am »

This has been going on for that long? Wow, im newer here than i thought...
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #43 on: January 23, 2009, 01:01 am »

Proto I started this topic to explain why I was being such a jerk lately (especially to Krystal)

@ Corsica: idk about skipping school, I know you mean to help but I just dont think skipping school to figure this out is a bit extreme. I think I just need to find a hobby. As for what, well Im still working on that
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #44 on: January 23, 2009, 01:25 am »

i knew lyeman long before that, and we never once spoke of religion. that was when i gave up trying to help him.

and im sterilising my account now until doro can confirm the deletion (IE deleting all info, and typing random letters to copy and paste into the password) so there really is no point contacting me.

From what I heard I side with S-T-N here, Lyeman was the one who just seemed to look for a fight. And people have it way worse then him, yet he keeps whining and I myself tried to help him. But Lyeman does not seem to listen to any one any way, and then even gets mad. Also your sens of "helping" some one, seems to be to annoy them with religious crap.(toward to Lyeman)
I agree, I don't really like S-T-N he was an [censored] toward me, but I can't talk against him, he is completly right, its Lyemans fault. And as faster as you guys see that and stop to try to help him. The faster he is going to freaking do some thing about it. I for one think that Lyeman is doing all this whining, because he wants people to listen to him and care about him, because he is to lazy to make friends.
Thats why I personality started to dislike Lyeman.(and be cause he is WAY to annoying with his religious stuff. I'm OK with any religion, but there is no need for him to batter it in.)
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #45 on: January 23, 2009, 01:32 am »

Depressed people are often DRIVEN to pick fights with those they perceive as having a part in causing their emotional distress. Its a well documented and acknowledged side effect, and, if controlled, can be used to great effect by the depressed person to identify problems and themes.
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"To a runner, a side stitch is like a car alarm.  It signifies something is wrong, but you ignore it until it goes away."

"Cross Country; finally a good use of golf courses!"

"Some people don't have the guts for distance racing. The polite term for them is sprinters."

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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #46 on: January 23, 2009, 01:38 am »

Dude, why can't you just tell me why you're so worked up over her..
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #47 on: January 23, 2009, 01:48 am »

ok Sapare now youre starting to annoy be by posting why you dont like me in every friggin topic

as for religion: I havent *forced* it on anyone as a long time. I like to talk about it but as you can see I rarely do so in public. And I get absolutely pissed off when people make fun of it, idk why you think Im such a prick about it, think of the thing you love most and then imagine people constantly making fun of it.

I have no idea whatsoever how you came to the assumption that Im too lazy to make friends. I can't seem to make them because I'm afraid of people.

Yes I sort of was looking for a fight when I PMed s-t-n but heres why: he started me down this whole thing, and if you have or havent noticed he seems to enjoy causing people distress, so I basically told him "well look what you did. You should be proud" to show him that what he did to me is having a lasting effect.

idk why you think I dont listen to anybody. I know you guys love me. Every night WHEN I PRAY I say something along the lines of "I pray for my friends, because I love them, and they love me too."

And trust me I dont want to be the center of attention. FOR THE LAST TIME I STARTED THIS TOPIC TO APOLOGIZE FOR BEING A JERK. I AM TRYING TO EXPLAIN MY SITUATION NOT WHINE ABOUT IT

the reason I am starting to dislike Sapare is because he assumes things about people and no matter of reasoning can seem to convince him that he is wrong.

and as people say Sapare, if you dont have anything nice to say, then dont say it at all. Go away. You annoy me just as much. Youre way too opinionated. And since you dont seem to realize this, other people have feelings too.

And for the last time if my computer hadnt been wiped then s-t-n would have a surefire reason to cry about his reputation.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #48 on: January 23, 2009, 01:54 am »

seriously man, the best thing you can do is stop talking about it on a forum or computer and go talk to someone in person. preferably a psychiatrist or psychologist. They can help, several of my friends have gotten through some rough patches with their help, and you shouldnt worry about any kind of stigma or anything.

this is a forum so i am not going to ask about your age, but if you are a teenager all i can tell you dude is that biology can seriously mess with your mind when there is nothing really worth getting upset about, so dont do anything stupid and chill.

and just let this thing with s-t-n go. i mean i really dislike viper (like really loathe his annoying "arguements") but sometimes you just have to let things slide and be the better man.

and as for people, they arent that scary. trust me. i know alot of them. even the ones that i should be scared of. but usually they aint that bad.
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« Reply #49 on: January 23, 2009, 02:04 am »

But thats joust what you do, You "EXPLAIN" why you such a jerk, but you just doing that so people feel sorry for you. And you being to afraid to make friends, its just a lame excuse you might not even know you doing. And you do not listen to people, every one tells you to talk to your parents, but you never do! And I'm joust saying some thing not nice because I'm trying to help you. You where the one always whining and asking why people do not like you, I try to tell you, and what do you do? Start to be mad at me, instead of doing some thing about it. And you really need to accepted and see the trues, not every thing is always nice.

This was my last post about this topic, for any time I can see.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #50 on: January 23, 2009, 02:14 am »

I was not trying to make people feel sorry for me. I hate being the center of attention but I was being really mean and I think the peeps deserve to know why

and believe it or not I have talked to my parents Sapare, way to assume stuff again. I found out that my dad has some kind of anxiety disorder that he takes pills for every morning and that even to this day he still thinks about killing himself from time to time.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #51 on: January 23, 2009, 04:22 am »

Just tell us..
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #52 on: January 23, 2009, 04:29 am »

here s-t-n. *offers handshake*
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #53 on: January 23, 2009, 05:23 am »

Well you screwed up, and you really starting to annoy me. Just stop whining and do some thing about it, or don't. I don't care any more. But stop posting all this stuff, its annoying.
But thats joust what you do, You "EXPLAIN" why you such a jerk, but you just doing that so people feel sorry for you. And you being to afraid to make friends, its just a lame excuse you might not even know you doing. And you do not listen to people, every one tells you to talk to your parents, but you never do! And I'm joust saying some thing not nice because I'm trying to help you. You where the one always whining and asking why people do not like you, I try to tell you, and what do you do? Start to be mad at me, instead of doing some thing about it. And you really need to accepted and see the trues, not every thing is always nice.

This was my last post about this topic, for any time I can see.

LUKAS! Stop beating up on the poor man. It's not going to help.



I was not trying to make people feel sorry for me. I hate being the center of attention but I was being really mean and I think the peeps deserve to know why

and believe it or not I have talked to my parents Sapare, way to assume stuff again. I found out that my dad has some kind of anxiety disorder that he takes pills for every morning and that even to this day he still thinks about killing himself from time to time.

Anxiety disorder? So? That doesn't mean it affects you. Take me, for example: My parents both hate fish, and yet I love it. My dad is a computer tech/writer, and my mom is a lawyer. I have my path set on being an ornithologist (bird scientist).

To repeat something I said long ago, it's not about who your parents are, or what they are like, or anything. It's the unique things you possess as a human being that matter.

And what about your cyber-sis? Talk to her, I'm sure you'll feel better.
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Re: Lyeman screws up again
« Reply #54 on: January 23, 2009, 05:26 am »

Anxiety disorder? So? That doesn't mean it affects you. Take me, for example: My parents both hate fish, and yet I love it. My dad is a computer tech/writer, and my mom is a lawyer. I have my path set on being an ornithologist (bird scientist).

To repeat something I said long ago, it's not about who your parents are, or what they are like, or anything. It's the unique things you possess as a human being that matter.
I just told him that to prove that I did. No I dont think that Im to do everything exactly like my parents. My mom says Im more like my dad but he hates talking to people even just ordering pizza or answering the door but I keep my cool most of the time

And what about your cyber-sis? Talk to her, I'm sure you'll feel better.
I want to, idk when shes on though and she hasnt been on much lately

btw ty for not being mad
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« Reply #55 on: January 23, 2009, 05:31 am »

he hates talking to people even just ordering pizza or answering the door but I keep my cool most of the time

You see!

I want to, idk when shes on though and she hasnt been on much lately

Perhaps end-of-semester craziness has been keeping her away. I know IT has for me...freshman finals...X(

btw ty for not being mad

You're welcome. I seem to have a lot of patience in matters like this, don't know why. ;)

Also...did I forget to mention that people with low self-esteem make better lovers? :P

Alright, I have to go. But I hope you'll find some comfort in this:

OBAMA LAMA! :P
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« Reply #56 on: January 23, 2009, 05:33 am »

oh yeah I completely forgot to say this but I really think that the day I do find that special girl then I'll we'll be in much better shape because then we wouldnt have to face our problems alone (for the most part) anymore
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